It is a wonder how guys will go to any length to meet and scale the challenges and hurdles set before them when they are courting a young woman for keeps. Hey, some even if it is for a."One night stand" only. They will become doormats for to step upon as and when she finds it fit.
It matters not how high, tough or even impossible the criteria in the quest to win her or her family to accept him as the right man for her are, he'll surely strive relentlessly to overcome them all. Many have sacrificed their faiths, principles and even souls to get admitted in her mind.
He'll travel to places he never ever, in his wildest dreams dreamt of going. He will undergo series of hardships and encounter dangers, yet come back smiling and wanting to do more for her love.
Yet again he will de-friend his likeness, his covetousness for money and will spend it gleefully and extravagantly to show the world, it is not worthy of his woman, singing "My woman, my everything" as he pays in cash or by eCash for her needs and wants.
He'll spend hours on end calling, texting, whatsapping, instagraming, inboxing and googleplusing to ensure he OHH - "OccupyHerHeart". He sings karaokes, write poems, compose music and even write a mission and vision statement about their future together.
And once engaged she occupies his daily daylight thoughts and is taken on an adventure every single night to a whole new world, just for two. With angels at their beck and calls, meeting all their kingly and queenly desires. He's never too busy to respond to her reach out in whichever form.
For the Wedding Nikkah and ceremony, it is conducted and celebrated with such pomp and grandeur that it becomes the talk of the town for months into nostalgic memory. Honeymoon could be at a destination or nations most cannot even dare to imagine.
She's swept off her feet and immersed in a fantasy beyond her wildest fantasies. Her heart is so sold on the romance, it is better than the very best, real or even fictional fairy tale. Prince Charming is indeed made manifest in her luckiest find of a life-long love and partner. It is simply unbelievable.
But, the moment he has her ringed and housed, the beautiful life turns into a dream-wake phenomenon. You know, when you sleep and have a perfect world spread in a dream before you and a sudden rude awakening is visited upon you. As we all know, this can be so frustrating.
Anyway, to cut the story short how many of married men and women can attest to this factually? Do you know why things happen like this? Are you currently experience this situation? Can it be reverse, reactivated and Revisited to gain back the loss? The Marriage Academy believes so.
Join us and let's retrace our steps to a sound and functional marriage with that one you love...
TMA
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